No one talks about how life will change 
How a new beautiful baby brings change 
Wanna breastfeed? 
Don’t forget your nursing bra, nursing pads and don’t forget to track how much water you’ve had …
Broccoli gives y’all both gas

It’s 3 am and everyone else is asleep 
Sitting on the side of the bed allowing myself to weep 
For the first 2 weeks make sure you get your rest.
Eat when she eats, and sleeping when she sleeps is what’s best …
Some days are easier than others 
I can admit at times that I want to take my frustrations out on my lover 
I remind myself to step back and meditate
And be cautious about the decisions that I make 
Family and friends shower the baby with blessings 
Everyone flocks with ooohs and awws 
You damn right she’s cute 
But when things get real my phone is mute 
I appreciate those who text just to check on me 
There’s much more to motherhood than what the eye can see

Your partner is the one who is supposed to be there to ALWAYS have your back 
But that’s not reality and most times there’s no one there to pick up the slack 
We are all human and have our own crosses to bare 
So understand that there’s no one someone else can always be there 
There’s no such thing as getting it all right 
So let’s stop letting the quest for perfection keep us up late at night 
The best thing I can do is to ditch the idea of perfection 
Be patient with myself and others and take note of the daily lessons 
We have access to everything we need and desire 
But we keep adding gas and doubt to the fear fire 
Breathe
Be still and know 
Enjoy the journey
Continue to grow …: